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The Cost of Letting Go
The courage required for identification isn't in choosing new goals. It's in admitting that goals you've already invested in—goals you've defended, planned for, and invested in—don't deserve continued pursuit. This feels like quitting. But identification without the willingness to abandon is just accumulation.
Why This Goal Comes First
A goal does not lead because it is reasonable. It leads only when the reason for pursuing it is strong enough to move other reasonable goals aside.